The problem was the starter, I have seen some real wild designs on the flexplates for the 2jz, some guys building $650. dollar flexplates and some guys hanging a chevy starter under the side of the adapter plate , but in reality the problem was not the flexplate, the problem was in the starter, it needed to be located in the exact same spot as original and the gear needed to be extended into the mounting plate so a coupler could be built for the crankshaft to extend out the flex plate
so I built a shaft for the starter that extended the pinion gear out on the original starter and then placed a bearing into the chevy/toyota adapter plate for location, I needed a 1/2 inch plate to feel secure in mounting the trans to the engine, after tah I adjusted the higth of the flexplate to the starter pinion, next I will adjust the distance of the trans/engine relationship
I took an old adapter plate from some earlier work and cut it up to fit the 2jz, then I mounted the bearing for the starter pinion and put the original flex plate back in place, then I mounted a 10 converter on the original flex plate and completed the swap